On the one hand, it sounds like he is genuinely worried about you. On the other hand, he seems to think you can leave H ("determination to change your circumstances soon") without the support of at least weekly therapy that you can't afford and he won't budge on a sliding scale.

I find it really hard to comment on your situation because it's obvious to me that your H is using financial means to control you and that just hurts my soul. It just makes me so angry. I want you to dump his sorry *** so much.