geekgirl....

Hope I didn't offend you by suggesting you get a different name! lol Had no idea that it was in reference to your profession.

At any rate hang in there. My thoughts are with you during this tough time. God knows I have messed up enough relationships. I am divorced twice (although the second one was a joke).

I just think that the whole porn obssession thing is a symptom of a greater problem. Perhaps depression. Admittedly men and women, for the most part, have vastly different views on porn. Sparingly its harmless. Viewed together with your partner could be cool if you are into that kind of thing. But a greater use of it is unhealthy.

Again, take the time to really reflect on the relationship. Maybe it wasn't the right one for you for what ever reasons. Either way you seem like a pretty level headed, intelligent woman that will bounce back!!!


FIGHTING THE GOOD FIGHT
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