No I don’t think you can just call someone’s therapist. I think i mistakenly thought it was a couple therapist that saw her separately. Don’t know where I got this idea.

One can hope that after 3 sessions and working on establishing that he is a good person he’d start working on other issues too. But sadly you won’t know if he will as he’d need to be up front with his therapist, you don’t know if he is. . I think you said couples therapist fired you, but maybe you can find a new one.

I wonder if his individual therapy can even help with your relationship if his focus is not necessarily on improving his behavior towards his family.