You don’t need to make decisions. When you know you know. If you don’t know what to do you just sit on it.

Admittedly I don’t understand how after one year of marriage your entire life would be uprooted. Like you had no life before him. I could see how if you were married 25 years or moved to a different country for him. I don’t understand after a year, still living in the same area. I do get a troublesome situation with a lease but those things get resolved too. I myself had not been married long, only 4 years but if something bad happened (no reason for that, just hypothetically speaking) it wouldn’t uproot my entire life at all. I didn’t move out of state or quit my job for my husband and I had the entire life before I’ve met him. So uprooting wouldn’t take place. I’d just be living how I was living, just not married.

You don’t have to explain. I think it’s just me not getting it.