he knows i have an online place i go.. i talk about some of it sometimes. He isnt into the web that much really. i gave him a post or two. i'd feel sad if he read this stuff.. because here is where i often talk about conflict i feel about him, etc.. and its part of how i do my own working through.. it would make me feel watched or something

ouch... not everyone or everything here is as dysfunctional as all that. Who thinks it IS therapy? not i for sure.. for me its a tool and sometimes a comfort. Are there peeps here who need big change? yup. So what? Thats a slice of it. Any T who read here and tried to form an idea of who a person was based on PC?... well, they really should hold off on being a T.. this is not representative of the whole person let me tell you.

i think it would be a learning tool though.. to see what happens behind the scenes so to speak. i am more open here about my feelings toward T than i am WITH him, c'est ca... its where i am at. That factor is the one i think T's would learn the most from.. that people post openly about their thoughts and feelings surrounding T and therapy.

i'd also like to think that even though i dont think what i do for someone is in any way therapy, i'd like to think i help. i'd like others to KNOW they help me.