My husband of nearly 26 years has started looking for places to live away from me. We have certainly had our issues, on both sides, but I have no doubt he is going through a mid-life crises, an identity crises, and I am concerned about the genetic dementia on both sides of his family. We are both 50. He told me yesterday he found a place on the beach (We’ve bern looking here for awhile) and has two days to decide if he wants to take it. I overheard him telling his cousin he will take it today. He thinks taking a break from us, his family, my family, work...will help him,. I’ve asked him for a long time to see someone together. He has seen a therapist for over a year and I have recently started. I fear his time away will be a romantic place and he will never come back, a place he has recently developed a hatred for. I don’t know what to do. I don’t think him leaving is the best thing for us.