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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I am a member of several women's abuse forums on Facebook, and I hear horror stories on there of abuse FAR worse than what I experience. I feel like what I experience is very mild in comparison.
And last night he ended up telling me he is going to buy that chair himself, the next time he gets paid. That made me very happy! He didn't even ask me to buy it or put it on my credit card. He simply said "in a couple weeks when I get paid again, I am going to buy it".
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That’s a good plan for him to buy it. I hope he sat on that chair first to make sure it’s comfortable. Is it an arm chair? Recliner?
I’d not compare other people’s relationships to yours. What works for others doesn’t have to work for you and vice versa. Of course there are extremely abusive marriages out there and everything compare to that seems like a bliss, but I’d not use it as a measurement of anything. Go by what works for you and you only