Hello there Guys;

I have so many interests and Hobbies I forego because she is not interested; How do I make her understand that we can encourage and participate on both of our activities and hobbies that we like. I follow sports, do shopping, listen to Audio Books and go to Gym; Play video games. Yet, she likes cooking and talking and nothing else; She watches dance and other Hindi videos but that's where it stops.

She really does not have something that she enjoys spending time on other than talking and cooking even that is hard to come by because she is hurt for losing her best friend because I made it stop as she was becoming too much emotionally involved with another men.

She says this has always been her characteristic which is to be sad and being depressed; How do I convince her to be more bubbly and smiling?

It seems she is carrying lot of pain and resentment against me and I do not wish our relation to be identified in that way; How do I make her to stop beliefs that negatively affects our relation?

She says that only our Baby boys happiness matters to her now and she does not know or want to be happy herself.

I feel guilty and helpless as I want to have an enjoyable life and experience with her but she keeps reaffirming this negative beliefs that's is affecting our relation and counter productive to helping in our Marriage recovery.