Before I read your last post, about him breaking up w you, I was going to ask you what was stopping you from breaking up with him. In a warped way Ms Lady, he is doing you a favor. You are not happy with him and he sounds extremely unhealthy, especially the lying, cheating, and the whole "I'm a good person" post it notes would trigger me too.

I'm curious to know his reason for wanting to break up. But again, you are better off without him.

Build a life that makes you happy.