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Old Jun 12, 2020, 09:27 AM
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Hmm, that can be a bit uncomfortable in a not sure how I feel about it way. High School crushes can be pretty intense and one is SO hormonal at that age too. The fear of rejection can be very strong too at that age.

Truth is, that at that age most are so self absorbed, it's very possible the individual has no idea another person who has a crush on them even exists. And then what can happen is a person you have a crush on can avoid you because they actually do like you. My daughter thought the guys did not like her, later she found out several had crushes on her but were too afraid to approach her.

For some, those years can be hard to revisit due to remembering how it feels to not be sure about one's self yet.
Thanks for this!
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