I agree with Susannah too. The most fundamental thing in therapy is trying to listen to the client and make them feel heard and empathised with. Your T made absolutely no reference to your concerns in his response, only offering a rather clinical description of his concerns for you. It wouldn't make me feel heard in those circumstances and I can't imagine it would anyone. In fact it would trigger intense feelings of being ignored and rejected in me. Even if your T is planning to take your concerns to supervision (which would be a good thing to do) his priority must be you, his client. I'm so sorry.
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