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Old Jun 12, 2020, 03:26 PM
MsLady MsLady is offline
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Originally Posted by WovenGalaxy View Post
Before I read your last post, about him breaking up w you, I was going to ask you what was stopping you from breaking up with him. In a warped way Ms Lady, he is doing you a favor. You are not happy with him and he sounds extremely unhealthy, especially the lying, cheating, and the whole "I'm a good person" post it notes would trigger me too.

I'm curious to know his reason for wanting to break up. But again, you are better off without him.

Build a life that makes you happy.
I'm unable to leave this relationship right now and I'm scared. He doesn't want to break up with me now. It's a threat because I had a boundary concern I'll be speaking with my therapist about today.

I don't know he's cheated. He's definitely been interacting with other women via text and email though. Emotional affairs are not great, either.