It's been a very upsetting day. I have a therapy session in half hour so I'll post more later. I'm curious to what she has to say.

Basically, he's minimized everything and told me I need to stop blaming him for how "I feel". He wants me to see him as "good".. something he repeated again and again, today. He's accusing me of all sorts of things that I've had concerns with about him.. using similar language. His interpretation is so left field about some of this.

It's a train wreck and my body is shaking. I'm really doubtful we'll be able to work through this because he's scared of the truth.

Now it's become about me "misinterpreting" pretty much everything and it's my "anxieties" that's feeding into all of this. All relationships have "troubles" and he's working on himself. He's stopped therapy and will be working through the DBT workbook, himself.

Oy..