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Old Jun 12, 2020, 05:20 PM
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Originally Posted by sarahsweets View Post
Hey @openeyes: I may be misunderstanding you but it seems like you were saying in one of your posts that someone cant change? I think you mentioned an animal and their spots? I disagree. People can change. If I hadnt changed I would have never gotten sober. My family doesnt hold my past behavior against me now that I have made amends and no longer act like a drunk asshole. Aside from this girl being abused can you expand on how you feel about a person changing?
To the op: What is your sexual history like?
@sarahsweets I had to sit and read this thread again so I can answer your question. Sometimes a person changes and sometimes not. Sometimes no matter how much you care it’s not enough.

We always take a risk when it comes to relationships especially when we are young and still naive yet.

And that’s what I said in that post you questioned as well.

Last edited by Open Eyes; Jun 12, 2020 at 08:22 PM.