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Jun 13, 2020, 03:59 AM
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Member Since: Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 6,008
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Hi @WhatIF2: I am going to be very direct and blunt and I dont mean to sound harsh. Cut. Her, out/off. She is not good for you. She has substance abuse issues that she wont address and low self esteem which you cant fix. You owe her nothing and she owes you nothing. It doesnt matter how much youve suffered in the sense that we are responsible for our own actions and aside from when we are vunerable as children, our actions as adults teach people how to treat us. Or our lack of inaction reinforces how others treat us. She knows she still has you hooked. She doesnt not need time to move out, make her leave pack up her stuff and agree upon a location for her to pick up her stuff. You cant heal with all her crap laying around and she will still have power over you if you keep contact and her leaving her crap with you means she will still have contact with her. You need to take care of yourself and not worry about her.
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