Hi Ian: I really was just joshing around with you in an affectionate sort of way about the hugs. I know it's hard not to lash out when we're hurting, but others here get their feelings hurt, too. I wasn't trying to disrespect you or your wishes (about the hugs) - honestly. Heather & Pebs are really caring people, so I hope you won't disrespect them either, OK? Your friend, Peanut

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