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Originally Posted by divine1966
I am sorry being so tedious but I am trying to understand what exactly does he say in his his raised voice (I have a father who liked to pick fights out of nothing so I am trying to understand if it’s the same thing, if yes there is nothing you can do but ignore and “grey rock” or leave or wait when he gets old and mellows down). What does he say in his raised voice: “how dare you ask me? “ “Why do you ask me when I am eating?” What does he say? What words?
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What I mainly recollect is his tone and raised voice. But he did kind of snap immediately, saying he had just woken up, so then I said, well you just paid your friend for something, why can't you pay me now too? Generally speaking, when a fight escalates, my PTSD gets triggered a bit and the exact details get fuzzier. Sorry, I cannot be of much help, to help you, to help me. lol. What I mainly know is that he raised his voice first and caused the argument.
His back is still in pain. For all I know, he's snapping about his frustrations with his back. He snapped earlier this morning at me too.