I had my mom look at the email she sent me and my mom says it does sound contradictory. At times this women almost seems like one of those secret sociopaths or whatever you call them. Don’t they sometimes go into the mental health field? I remember one time telling her that I thought my boss knew I had said something (I had told a couple coworkers and T) because the boss was doing things differently. My T said “did you think I was the one who told your boss?” I looked confused and said “why would I think that?” And she said “I was just wondering” her comment made me feel a bit paranoid. Not exactly like gaslighting but almost like.

I’ve read about similar cases in this book called “The Sociopath Next Door” they hide themselves very well.