My husband is going through this, and it is the worst thing of our whole 31 years together. All of a sudden, he is a completely different person. Not happy with himself, his life, his clothing, his cologne, his beard, his body. The grandkids make too much noise, he wants to do what all the 20's and 30 year olds are doing. Almost had a fling with a 45 year old secretary at his work, until I caught on and started asking questions. I think he is starting to come out of it after two years, the last six months being hell. I think this is why lots of folks our age get divorced. Lots of people aroung this little town have gone through this very thing, and a few of them have divorced. Just thought this topic could be discussed as I am sure there are lots of us out there, and we could help each other.