Most of my scars are on my thighs so that it is much easier to hide them. None of my Ts have ever seen them and never will. I have a few on my arms and I will always keep them covered up for everyone T included. I feel like I’m attention seeking if they are not covered up.
My previous CPN asked to see my arms when he first asked about self harm as he assumed that’s where I did It and when he saw them his reaction was ‘Oh there’s only a few, so it’s not like we need to worry about that as you’re clearly not a proper self harmer.’ He never did ask whether I did it anywhere else on my body and never found that my thighs are covered in scars.