I feel like you never respond to my posts, too. Maybe I’m just not helpful. I mean, you don’t have to, but it does feel like getting snubbed; just like your manager felt.
When a young child makes an honest observation and a comment that is offensive, they are told that while their observation is true, it is hurtful to say it to the person. The child learns about truth and kindness and grows up, modifying behavior to keep their rude thoughts to themselves.
I understand you have a disorder, so I see this is why you are not maturing in this area.