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Old Jun 14, 2020, 09:15 AM
Cottoncandy7411 Cottoncandy7411 is offline
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Mine isn’t married yet but the whole Facebook flaunting photos used to drive me insane. Even when I didn’t want to look, I’d look again. I’d imagine all sorts of things in my mind and wish them both the worst thoughts a person can. But it was eating me alive. Slow torture. I found the only way I could regain my control and power over the situation and my thoughts was to block both of them on social media including any and everyone who knew them. As hard as it is, you’ll regain the upper hand in your well being. There is nothing worse than seeing the life you imagined and hoped and dreamed for being lived by someone else while you sit there grieving and hopeless. It’s not hopeless.. take your life back. Instead of thinking of all you lost, try to focus on you will be able to gain when purge them from your life. The hell with them. It can’t hurt you if you stop looking. Plus just think of how awesome you will feel when they realize you blocked them and could care less. (Even if you still do) make a daily to do list and do one little thing for yourself each day. Force yourself to paint a wall, beak something if you must, start a new hobby, get a pet, go for a walk, get a makeover and redo yourself into a whole new person. It took me a long time to move past the anger, hurt, loss and feeling that I was not as good as this woman. That’s the process that a person with a heart goes through. If it helps any, mine ended up trying to come back and regretted it. If he did this to you, he will do it to her. Cheaters don’t change. You deserve more than feeling bad about those pictures. Block them. Take control. Love yourself today.
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Thanks for this!
Bill3