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Old Jun 14, 2020, 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted by ChickenNoodleSoup View Post
Thanks for all your replies!

I will probably tell him similar to the way I explained it here.

Since I don't even know the information, I don't think I'm trying to be closer to him. I am somebody who is always very aware of how much personal information I share with people and where. Therefore, I also think a lot about what other people do and am often surprised about how little thought they pay to these things. While I agree it's not my job to tell him and I have the choice to just ignore it, I also think it's polite to inform people about things they can easily change and in that way protect themselves a tiny bit.

And thanks for the suggestion of going more often. I have done so in the past, but currently, I'm doing rather well and don't feel there's any need for me to go more than once a week. It might seem like I'm giving a lot of thought to things and think about something like his car a lot, but I am not ruminating at all about it, it was just a realization I had while thinking about my past and connecting it to more present things.

I'm sorry; I thought you had mentioned that you were seeing him every 4 months.

You sound offended by my post. I didn't intend to be offensive. All I can do is come from my own experience. I looked up my therapist's address because knowing where she lives makes me feel closer to her. Sounds illogical, but people have needs that are often not logical on the surface, but make sense when examined.
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