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Originally Posted by Buffy01
I have this problem myself with other people. You are not alone in this. It sound like your friends are all toxic people who need to work on their self and the other friend who is talking about you is doing this to other who because she is jealous of own self. People who feel good about themselves don't put people down and don't have bad things to say about other people.
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I'm sorry to hear that you have the same problems too-
You're probably right about what you said. One thing they ALL had in common was that they were all struggling, all poor and broke most of the time, all not happy with their living situation and/or not happy with being single too.
They ALL told me how lucky I am to have a husband who takes care of me, how I don't have to really work hard like they do most of the time (I have worked at back breaking jobs in the past). or that the few contracting jobs that I got paid well. I could never win with them, ugh.
That nasty two face friend lives with her mom and she is still living with her sick demented mother. She's single and can never find a guy who'll stay with her for long. Another friend who complained about me a lot also lives with her mom.
The two faced former friend also has a lot of health issues as well. She can't work at a regular job as she also suffers from panic attacks and she has agoraphobia as well. I didn't judge her for that though.
None of my other friends who are more fortunate as far as having their own place and secure in their finances, in a happy relationship, or even none are that critical of me ever.