LOL... you have too many dealbreakers and maybe I don't have enough! LOL!

Yeah, my husband and I never argue or differ on politics. We have the same views, or so far we do at least. We're both not hugely political either. He's more into it than I am. But I do get your point. One can be conservative or liberal in different areas of politics. I am generally liberal and a Democrat. His parents are both Republicans and I cannot speak politics with them whatsoever. Totally different views.

I mentioned my husband's sexist and racial slurs? That bothers me IMMENSELY. It's on my negatives list and list of incompatibilities. It should be a dealbreaker for me, if I am being fair to my own beliefs. i am a feminist and am not racist in ANY way. He's gotten better since I've slammed him for these types of comments.

Your holidays sound fun! And interesting! I cannot relate to his background in Judaism, but he really doesn't celebrate it much, even with friends, so it's practically a non-issue.