My bigger concern is that it is more than a mid-life crises. He has Alzheimer’s on both sides of his family. He is not acting like himself and says he feels he needs to be away from everyone, including his best friends. He keeps saying he needs rest. Yes, I am hurt, I am confused, I am concerned. He loves he and tells me all of the time and shows me. This wanting a separation came out of the blue. I know it is not an affair. I want him to see a doctor but he doesn’t think he needs to and his problems is with everyone else. I want to be supported but damn, I am heartbroken.