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Have to agree with other posting saying not enough information. But I also agree that if you feel your life would be better with that person then without I would go for it.

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I agree with this too. I think it takes a lot of analysis on the fighter's part. I have been known to sit down with a piece of notebook paper and write down all the pros and cons of keeping that person in my life. If the cons outweigh the pros, well, there's your answer.

And yes, receptiveness, that is very important. If they cannot see that you are fighting and that you are trying - then what is the point? If they are not considerate of your feelings in trying to be together at any cost then what's the point.

I suffer with this same dilemma. No doubt. However, I've learned that there are some things just not worth fighting for. Some things never change no matter how hard you fight. Sometimes it just is what it is. I do think we need a little more info though.