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Originally Posted by Emily Fox Seaton
I guess I am in that weird spot where I am coming to terms with breaking it off. Sounds like you already have. It isn't like we broke anything off, i am just like in this weird limbo where I feel like I can't do anything because one day he might just show up on my front door.
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Never an easy or comfortable spot.
He may show up , he may not, he may call before showing up, he may already
feel your not an option- unknown- but what is known is-your home is your home.
My t once told me that my home is now my safe place, and that I shouldn't let others in that I feel would make it unsafe (all around safe mental and physical, spiritual what have you).
It's your choice who to invite into your safe place. It's not selfish to say no if an aspect of safety or peace of mind is threatened.
Not to sound corney, but what does your heart tell you?
We all are on our own journeys and pain some times morphs into something beautiful and some times not.
I've had hard times with this... and I beat myself up as "where's the love".... And that has been used as an attack on me before....but honestly where is the love when that is the situation?
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I wish you well and believe whatever your decision is you will grow.