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Jun 16, 2020, 05:40 AM
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Originally Posted by Fury
I have the same issue with my sister. She wants nothing to do with me unless she can control me or get something from me, and she constantly passes judgment on me for not living my life to her standards.
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That is it. Anything I would choose to do would be judged and would have to be hidden from him. Sometimes I feel that is why I don't have a boyfriend because I wouldn't want to expose anyone to him.
He is a big spy too. Sometimes sending cousins my way to pump for information about me. One time a cousin came out and asked me my wage and I was so surprised I lied. Later I asked her if my brother put her up to it and she said yes.
My SIL dislikes me. His lies backfired there. He likes to tell her every embarrassing story of my life and make a few up too. She believes me to be a freak. I am sure my nephew thinks that. But there is very little way of contact around the parents. We have an event at work called take your kid to work day (nephews too). This is a big event, the kids get all kinds of special events -- he would have had fun. But I know that the carefully constructed lie would have been destroyed because I have a lot of people at work who like me and would have been important in my nephews eyes... so that was out.
I think this might be the year we end things. I am considering traveling over the holiday again to try to break it off. I did that early on but he guilted me into ending that. It is kind of hard to accept and kind of hard to think about. Scary.
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