Thread: Marriage may need to end: enormous grief and sadness
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Old Jun 16, 2020, 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Ask him to see a therapist together now? Don’t wait?
Then I have to be prepared to leave him if he says no. It's an either or situation. Either we go to therapy to discuss and work out all the issues, OR I leave him. I am not ready to leave him, meaning I don't have the money yet. It makes far more sense for me to wait until the next blowup.
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