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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Then I have to be prepared to leave him if he says no. It's an either or situation. Either we go to therapy to discuss and work out all the issues, OR I leave him. I am not ready to leave him, meaning I don't have the money yet. It makes far more sense for me to wait until the next blowup.
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Not as an ultimatum. Just as a suggestion. If things don’t work out and he ever says you don’t care about me or you didn’t fight for us, yes I did, I suggested therapy to help us through, I showed my care. You don’t have to leave if he says “no.”