I never considered him a particular physical abusive person. He was more emotional abuser but it was for me pretty hard to notice it My guts have been telling me I wasn't feeling a swell as I should though. He has a charming personality however and he keeps it for the majority of people but I know the whole him and mainly I know how he behaves most of the time with me, especially when I feel low and insecure.

Being honest, I didn't expect he reached the point to be physical with me and after the bombing of e-mails I'm receiving from him these days there is not a single one in which he asks how my arm is going. All it's about he playing the role of the victim, making assumptions about me.

As he brought up the topic in e-mails, I have already told him that his assumptions are all wrong with the only exception that our relationship is finished and that we have to talk to look for the best way out for both.