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Old Jun 17, 2020, 10:28 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I felt like this for the last year in my last relationship. It was up and down. Very draining. It was over a specific issue but I noticed that made me into an angry person. I had to get out to save myself

Sounds like relationship with my dad. You don’t know one day from another how things will be and what he’ll say or do. The only way to maintain sanity it’s keep your distance which isn’t possible with one’s spouse.
Yeah.. the up and down nature is definitely unsettling for me. I don't like not knowing what I am going to get on a daily or weekly basis. And no, I cannot keep my distance.

I have therapy today, thank goodness!!!
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