I am so sorry, HH. I was in an abuisve relationship for a long time. We have a child and I wanted to make it work for her. But this woman is just beyond abusive and will never admit she has any issue. I left finally. Should have done it years before. She will never change.

8 months is a helluva long time. All it takes is about 4 or 5 seconds on a really, realy bad night for him, and you could be dead. Happens every sinlge day. I think you should get out of there now, even if you have to go to a shelter.

Love and support.