View Single Post
 
Old Jun 18, 2020, 05:58 AM
Have Hope's Avatar
Have Hope Have Hope is online now
Wise Elder
 
Member Since: Dec 2017
Location: Eastern, USA
Posts: 9,752
Quote:
Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I think he is not physically abusive and Have Hope feels safe. I think if she leaves now she’ll be stuck paying half of the rent for the apartment she won’t live in as well as a rent at a new place. I do agree that abuse escalates though. That’s concerning to say the least
Yes, that is correct. We JUST renewed our lease this June, so leaving means I have to break the lease and find a substitute roommate to take over my lease. Without that roommate in place, I would be paying both rent in the old place and new place, which I definitely cannot afford.

I agree that it's all very concerning.

__________________
"Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination"

~4 Non Blondes