Thread: Can't talk to my wife
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Old Jun 18, 2020, 07:09 AM
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Yes, but I can't change this person. I have, however, been able to lower my anxiety level significantly in reaction to her social behavior. I am trying to keep the peace for me and my children as best I can.

You are right about our communication issues. That is why I am stuck. I can't go any further with her until she changes. It makes me frustrated on most days and just sad on other days.

Thanks for your support!
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You're right -- you cannot change a person. You can only change your own behavior. But can also boundaries and limits for yourself around what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior and treatment.

I'm sorry you feel so stuck, frustrated and sad. It's. understandable. Any chance of couples therapy?
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Thanks for this!
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