I have had what I think would be considered a rupture with each of my Ts. With long term T I never brought it up so it really never resolved it but we moved on. I knew she didnt intend for it to come out the way we did.

With current T I wrote it out and she read it at our next appointment and we discussed it. It did cause me to be very cautious and back off a bit. However, having discussed it, was HUGE progress for me. Plus she handled it really well and since then if something she says bothers me I feel comfortable being it up instead of stewing over it.