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Originally Posted by Have Hope
You're right -- you cannot change a person. You can only change your own behavior. But can also boundaries and limits for yourself around what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior and treatment.
I'm sorry you feel so stuck, frustrated and sad. It's. understandable. Any chance of couples therapy?
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I keep fantasizing that we go to couples therapy and I open up and the therapist mediates so she can't get mad at me. Then I get a chance to share all that she is putring me through and the therapist makes her listen and acknowledge her behavior.
Then I keep telling myself not to get my hopes up. Otherwise I will build a case against her in my head and drive myself crazy.
Thanks for validating my feelings. It's nice. [emoji847]