Howdy howdy! I wish I could say that it tapered off. He has gone off the deep end...well, deeper end. He went on a campaign to enlist the help of acquaintances of mine. He got his brothers to try and convince me to "take him back", likely so they could get rid of him. I'm playing whackamole with his fake accounts. The moment I block one, more pop up. I still get 300 to 500 messages a day, all with him declaring that he will never give up, never let me go and that I'm the abusive one and if I crawl back to him and beg forgiveness he will allow me to exist. He's taking this new tone of sounding like he's lecturing a wayward child and that I'm a lost idiot who can only be saved by him. It's the same cycle of disgusting sexual content about what he's going to do to me, onto screaming rantfests of how evil I am with him screaming how I am cheating on him by merely associating with other men, onto sobbing, bawling and blubbering apologies, but blaming me for his outbursts and taking no responsibility. He even hijacked his brothers' email and gaming accounts to try and contact me. And he even hijacked a child's account to fool me into talking to him.
I'm just glad I was away for two weeks overseas, but I was still getting the texts and emails and voice messages and videos. I'm clocking him sleeping about two to three hours a day for several weeks now based on the time stamps of the messages.
I'm still on the back burner for getting a TRO with covid and civil unrest. The good that comes out of this is that all of the people that he tried to co opt saw my side of things when I showed them what he wrote/said/videoed/recorded/etc and saw the abusive rants and screaming along with the destruction of property. I've actually made several friends out of his former friends who will no longer associate with him over this. He then blamed me for "stealing" his friends. He also launched into attacking his former friends for "stealing" me and called them all traitors. He screamed at me for sharing the abusive things he called me to his former friends. His hijacking of accounts backfired on him when he would launch into an abusive tirade and I reported the behavior and his brothers' accounts became banned and they were livid with stalker boy. He thinks he's smarter than he really is and much of his tactics fail. It's sad to say, but I'm just hoping he implodes like a dwarf star and goes away. However, the content of his language and the volume of communications that he sends and the tenacity in which he creates new accounts tells me otherwise. This is not a behavior that the will change on his own and the negative effect that it has on my life is taking its toll.
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