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Originally Posted by divine1966
He encourages you to smoke? You mean cigarettes or he wants you to be high with him? I am a former smoker myself (cigarettes) and I know it’s so very hard to quit. Why would someone encourage a dangerous, disease causing, habit??? What could possibly be an agenda? Or he doesn’t consider it unhealthy?
He holds you in bed by saying “oh baby stay in bed longer” or holds you down physically?
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When I was only just vaping and had quit smoking cigarettes, he encouraged me to smoke a cigarette whenever he was having one. So I started smoking again. He resists quitting himself and is in COMPLETE denial about the health risks. He does not take good care of himself at all, and one of my personal goals has to do with improving my health.
He holds me down physically in bed and restrains me sometimes when I've tried to get up. He uses physical force to hold me down in bed because he doesn't want me to leave. He even has done this in the middle of the night when I have tried to get up and use the bathroom. I have actually struggled to get out of his grasp, and the only way he has let go is if I tell him I have to pee.