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Old Jun 19, 2020, 09:15 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Why would he do that? Have you asked? What’s the reason? Control? Too high to know what’s he doing?

I guess if you didn’t think it was abuse maybe it didn’t bother you. Have you met other men who have done it? It’s scary.

It’s so disturbing
I don't know why he's done it except to say that he doesn't want me to get out of bed or for me to stop cuddling with him. He wants to keep cuddling.

It's bothered me immensely, but I shoved it down and ignored it for the most part. Guess I didn't want to acknowledge it fully to myself. But I don't like it.
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