Of course you have to ask what’s the deal. You can’t just lay there not knowing if he is just playing around or you are in danger, do you fight him or plead to let you go? How does he not have a black eye or something else black yet?

Does he like some type of dominant/submissive interactions/fantasies and is going all wrong about it? If man is a gentle soul who likes to cuddle, he’d for sure not be restraining you.