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Old Jun 19, 2020, 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Of course you have to ask what’s the deal. You can’t just lay there not knowing if he is just playing around or you are in danger, do you fight him or plead to let you go? How does he not have a black eye or something else black yet?

Does he like some type of dominant/submissive interactions/fantasies and is going all wrong about it? If man is a gentle soul who likes to cuddle, he’d for sure not be restraining you.

I do tell him "let me go - I want to get up" and he will still hold me back, using force. It's only when I tell him "I have to get up so I can pee!" will he then let me go.

maybe it IS some sort of control issue on his part. or dominant control. He's never acted that way sexually towards me in any kind of dom/sub type of role play. He's never even suggested it.
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