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Originally Posted by raging vortex
I feel like my life is virtually over.
last night I found out that my online support group for incontinence sufferers was closing, meaning that I have lost over 90 percent of my friends (most of my friends I made through that group), and I am now back to a laughing stock- rather than having people that understand what I go through, people look at me now and are like.. wow, really?. that's gross!. and I'm actually feeling really bitter about it I just want to lie their and smell. but I showered today (even though it caused me great pain), and I had a fresh fruit salad- which like I've said before I try to eat more to have a healthy start to the day. but I am doing nothing today, I have no plans, and I generally feel like a big part of my life has just been ripped away
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Well, you have us, vortex, and we all love you uncondotionally, just the way you are. We all have health issues we are dealing wiht, most of us. There is no shame in any of that. I have a pretty badass neuropathy that I don't really discuss here, but, it does occasionally cause me some pretty major personal embarassment. Big-time. But I recognize that it is a neurologic disorder I did not give myself and is beyond my control, and then, I feel better about it. Try not to judge myself.
What about you guys maybe starting your own new forum? Is that possible to do on one of the, say, urology sites or something? It seems like those kinds of people wouod be very supportive of such a plan.
Hang in there. You will find something. Hugs!!