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Old Jun 19, 2020, 05:38 PM
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This response is probably going to sound harsh. I think you need to hear it though. OWN YOUR PROBLEMS. Don't shuffle them off onto a group or other people, that's the easy and WRONG way to address your failings and insufficiency. If everyone (and women in particular in your case) is rejecting you, YOU are the problem, not them. Women as a group are not responsible for you being rejected, just like men as a group are not responsible for the heinous actions of a few. If you plaster women with your failure to find a partner, where's that going to get you? You can't fix a group, and they'll just resent you if you try to blame them for problems by virtue of being born a member, which will leave you even more alone. However, if you take an honest stock of what's wrong in your life, and you decide to own that with an eye to doing what you can to fix it, no matter how small a change that might make your life better... you'll have far greater success than you will by blaming your problems on a group over whom you have no control.

Frankly, my OPINION is that you should take a step back and work on bettering yourself without worrying about finding a romantic relationship. It has been my experience that in doing so, the relationships will find you. Additionally, treat rejections like they're doing you a favor and don't look back. They're not the right ones for you anyway.
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