I have been involved in a sexual relationship with a 35 y.o man. I am a 49 y.o woman.
This has been going on almost 3 months.
We began by saying its just sex
We agreed not see other people.
When we are together its hours. Sometimes he spends the night. He is always close and holds me. We talk a lot. Many times about intimate details and feelings about various topics. We text back and forth throughout most days.
He told me he loved me. He had been drinking. I didnt pay attention to it. Then he did it a second time. The third time i felt like it was a game and we had a falling out. A week later we started up agian. He found out i had started talking to another guy and acted jealous, but we worked it out.
This really feels like a relationship, but he says he doesnt want a relationship.
We are off again now. But a few days ago (after me telling him when i could get pregnant) he came over and picked the day right in the middle of ovulation to have sex with me.
What is going on?
Thank you for your time and opinions.