now he says he doesnt mean it. he says i can keep the car. that he wouldnt take it away from me. he was upset that i consulted with an attorney. but he got over it. i think knowing that i consulted with an attorney made it to real for him. but it is what it is. this is the real deal. and i am going to consult with an attorney for the seperation as we do not meet any grounds for divorce in my state as yet. he is still trying to act like we are together. i am trying to be as patient as i can be but he really needs to get the point that this relationship is over.