@Ripperjack first I want to say I am sorry for your loss. I am sure it was very hard on you to care for your sick wife all those years.

So I watched the video you posted and while some of what this man says may be true for some it’s not really an accurate way to define all dating to go that way. This guy is single and comes across as a bit angry tbh.

I think there is more involved than what he is saying when it comes to finding the right person to commit to when it comes to a long term relationship.

If you don’t mind my asking how Old are you now?