I'm wondering if you exclude overweight women in your search for a date? Sometimes men (and of course women, too) get stuck in a rut about what they think their 'type' is. Thinking that only one type will do, can cut you off to the wonderful possibilities to be had in getting to know others who are not cookie cutter matches to your ideal. There are a lot of young women interested in gaming, so I am surprised you cannot find someone through some aspect of that?

The best thing a young man (or a young woman--or old ones, for that matter) can do is be honest. Be honest about your weight, your interests, your hopes and dreams for the future. There are a lot of lovely young women out there. Keep trying.