You are not providing enough information for me to give you more than general suggestions. You said you tried joining a club on campus...and? The club didn't meet? The people were rude? There were no women?

How about this--explore other clubs that interest you with an eye for them also being attractive to women. What about physical activities? Dancing? Singing? Films? Cooking? Service projects?

Are you greeting people and talking to people when you are in group situations? You will have to put yourself out there. I am in a group; I have not met a love match but I have made friends, and I did that by showing up, paying attention to what other people were saying, what their interests were, expressing my interest and asking them to elaborate on theirs and being pleasant and agreeable. <---people like that. I hope for the best for you. Keep trying.